Slow Down

I recently read an article by John Ortbery called The Life You’ve Always Wanted, which talked about slowing your life down.  I really resonated with this article.  I’ve really rushed through life and I’m learning to slow things down.

We all live in a hurried world; we buy things that will helps us hurry, we order fast food, and we try to get to places as fast as we can.  The problem with having a hurried lifestyle is that it can keep us from living well and have us rushed and preoccupied that we will settle for a mediocre version of it.  Ortbery writes that “We will just skim our lives instead of actually living them.”

Here are some symptops to a hurried lifestyle:

• Constantly speeding up daily activities: wanting to be in the fastes lane on the freeway, wanting to be in the shortest line in the grocery market to the point that we keep track of the person who would hav ebeen me in the other lane
• Multiple-tasking: out of the desperate need to hurry, we find ourselves doing or thinking more than one thing at time, for example, in car, we don’t just drive, but we also drink, eat, talk on the phone, etc.
• Clutter: we have a bunch of books that we say we’re going to read, we buy time saving gadgets that we end up not using
• Superficiality: the need to feel like we need to understand everything–even the smallest thing–minutely and exactly
• An Inability to Love: Love always takes time and time is one thing hurried people don’t have
• Sunset Fatigue: We’re just too tired and too trained to love people whom we have made deep promises with

I am guilty of constantly speeding up daily activities, having a lot of clutter, and I find myself constantly rushing through things.  So, this summer I will try to slow things down, clean out my closet, set time in solitude (away from a hurried lifestyle), and actually live life!